Reputation Is A Rather Vague Concept And Most People Claim Not To Pay Attention To It. What Is It Really? Reputation Is Linked To Our Need To Belong Whether we like it or not, we are all influenced by our awareness of our reputation. The simple fact of having friends or receiving the esteem of our family leads us to…
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A flaw is an asperity, that is to say, something that gives both depth and a possibility to hold on to. In a word, it gives contentment. It is also what makes us particularly human. A flaw can sometimes contain a quality, but the reverse is always true. Do people love us more for our defects than for our qualities?…
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We often talk about the influence of parents on their children. But what about the other way around? What if the parents are brave and loving while the offspring are lazy and selfish? Can we be influenced by our own children? Children As Kings In their desire to do too much, parents can end up spoiling their children’s character. Child…
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Familiarity leads to contempt… until separation. When we enter a relationship, we do so because we are attracted to the other person and they recognize our uniqueness. There is of course the desire to unite but this must not be done at the expense of what we are. Close contact often leads to a loss of distance from the other…
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We all want to surround ourselves with good people. That said, you should be familiar with the expressions “whoever looks alike, gathers” or “you can’t attract flies with vinegar”. In other words, you are responsible for the quality of your entourage, you naturally attract people who look like you. To Change Friends, We Must Improve What We Are Since we…
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You know what the problem with being famous, rich or successful is? Well, it’s that very few people show you their true colors. Since you are a person of power, people seek your favor and therefore wear a mask to seduce, deceive or manipulate you. Under such conditions, it is difficult to know who you are dealing with. Material success…
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Loneliness is a suffering for those who are not used to it. The more we get used to being alone, the more we become hermetic and insensitive to the outside world. Of course, it takes time, but human psychology is like that, if it cannot modify its environment, it will make sure to adapt to it. There are several psychological…
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Secrets are more than just words exchanged between people, they serve to seal a friendship or a relationship like a chest that seals a priceless treasure. The test of secrecy Because secrets are difficult to keep, they have a very specific purpose: to test those we value. Just as iron is strengthened by fire and carbon, friendship also needs to…
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… especially if you have responsibilities The word humiliate comes from the Latin humus which means “soil”. To humiliate oneself would consist in keeping one’s feet on the ground if not at least keeping one’s head on one’s shoulders. When one lacks humility, one disconnects in a way from the real world, one can become despicable and a fortiori despicable.…
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The need for recognition is a lure because it can be insatiable. The need for paternal recognition can very quickly lead to a need for recognition at work and project it onto his superior. To avoid this endless race, it is advisable to put an end to this need as soon as possible, at the risk of spending one’s life…
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