When you’re thinking of getting married, you mustn’t define the 1,000 qualities your future partner will possess, or you’ll find yourself alone for the rest of your life. On the contrary, you should define three qualities on which you won’t compromise. You’re not perfect, so don’t strive for perfection There’s a fundamental law in the universe called the law of…
+Category: Relationships
Have You Fallen Into The Trap Of Trying To Please People?
Our childhood is often the place where a conditional love relationship is established between the child and the parent. In this configuration, the child receives love only if he or she behaves in a certain way according to the criteria of the parent in question. Since the child is fragile and vulnerable, he or she does not have a choice…
+2 Conditions + A Bonus To Make A Couple Work
We tend to put the cart before the horse when it comes to finding a lifelong partner. Beauty or wealth are only secondary ingredients for a relationship to last. Let’s see together, the 2 essential ingredients that make the marriage locomotive work. A Common Mission For a couple to function in the long term, there must be a convergence of…
+Do You Pay Attention To Your Reputation?
Reputation Is A Rather Vague Concept And Most People Claim Not To Pay Attention To It. What Is It Really? Reputation Is Linked To Our Need To Belong Whether we like it or not, we are all influenced by our awareness of our reputation. The simple fact of having friends or receiving the esteem of our family leads us to…
+Do People Like You More For Your Flaws Than Your Qualities?
A flaw is an asperity, that is to say, something that gives both depth and a possibility to hold on to. In a word, it gives contentment. It is also what makes us particularly human. A flaw can sometimes contain a quality, but the reverse is always true. Do people love us more for our defects than for our qualities?…
+Children Influence Parents Too
We often talk about the influence of parents on their children. But what about the other way around? What if the parents are brave and loving while the offspring are lazy and selfish? Can we be influenced by our own children? Children As Kings In their desire to do too much, parents can end up spoiling their children’s character. Child…
+Don’t Be Too Familiar With Your Spouse
Familiarity leads to contempt… until separation. When we enter a relationship, we do so because we are attracted to the other person and they recognize our uniqueness. There is of course the desire to unite but this must not be done at the expense of what we are. Close contact often leads to a loss of distance from the other…
+Are You A Good Friend?
We all want to surround ourselves with good people. That said, you should be familiar with the expressions “whoever looks alike, gathers” or “you can’t attract flies with vinegar”. In other words, you are responsible for the quality of your entourage, you naturally attract people who look like you. To Change Friends, We Must Improve What We Are Since we…
+Be A Loser For A While To See The True Nature Of People
You know what the problem with being famous, rich or successful is? Well, it’s that very few people show you their true colors. Since you are a person of power, people seek your favor and therefore wear a mask to seduce, deceive or manipulate you. Under such conditions, it is difficult to know who you are dealing with. Material success…
+The More You Manage To Overcome Your Suffering, The Less You Will Want To Change Your Environment
Loneliness is a suffering for those who are not used to it. The more we get used to being alone, the more we become hermetic and insensitive to the outside world. Of course, it takes time, but human psychology is like that, if it cannot modify its environment, it will make sure to adapt to it. There are several psychological…
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