Relationships

Love Is Not Found, It Is Built

The culturally dominant vision of love is based on the idea of a romantic encounter, marked by love at first…

5 days ago

From now on, make your decisions as if nothing and no one changes

Our memory deceives us: we think we know, yet time and distance shape our recollections, idealizing people, eras, and places.…

2 weeks ago

In Today’s World, a True Sense of Freedom Often Comes From Anonymity

When you look closely at the lives of the people most admired—movie stars, athletes, public figures—you start to see that…

1 month ago

We Do Not Change

Memory alters reality as it was lived and tends to smooth out all its rough edges: what was negative fades…

3 months ago

Why Are People Jerks?

People usually become jerks because they were victims of abuse when they were young and never managed to recover from…

4 months ago

From Now On, Decide To Make Love Only With The One You Want To Marry

The family is primarily built on ideas of commitment and loyalty. A society is an assembly of families; one could…

5 months ago

Why Is It Important to Make Oneself Rare, Sometimes?

People tend to respect those who are rare, those who appear elusive. From this mystery arises a sense of danger,…

6 months ago

Ricard Matthieu’s plea for altruism

I. THE FOUNDATIONS OF ALTRUISM Altruism, at the heart of Matthieu Ricard's reflections in Plaidoyer pour l'altruisme, is based on…

11 months ago

You Are Recharged By The People Who Love You, Don’t Let Them Down

We all need love to live, and without this ingredient, we wither like dried flowers. Our soul needs love, and…

2 years ago

Before Making Love, One Must Practice Love

  The importance of theory in learning anything Love is a word so overused that we no longer really know…

2 years ago